I honestly feel like half of the people on here who complain about reply guys don't understand what a reply guy is, and they're just a lowkey ableist.

@w Yeah, I've been pretty paranoid of replying to posts sometimes because I have the neurodivergent urge to attempt to be helpful but because of just how badly that comes back to bite because it too often gets interpreted in bad faith as "reply guying" and then I get bitten off for it...

I'm not even always a guy, either! Genderfluidity fucks hard, yo.